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Saturday, 25 December 2010

F.R.I.E.N.D.S

sometimes i really need someone to talk to but..
not knowing who i could share with anymore..
someone who could be by my side always ..
listens and giving advice as well..
what i have been longed for so long..
am looking and still looking for the right person ..
just wanted to find at least one person and i will be satisfied..
why is it so hard to trust someone ?!
why can't life be easier ?!
just a close friend will be enough for me..
it's been long keeping inside..
just wanted to let it out for once that's all..
i really wanted to tell the WORLD that..
IS IT WRONG ?!..to share?! to tell someone?!
in the end .. the things u shared doesn't seems to be easy to overcome after that..
for all the years .. keeping it makes a heavier burden and harder to carry on..
ever think of giving up.. but.. it's just not the right way..
... .... .... ....
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Wednesday, 22 December 2010

tang yuan ♨

the above photo of tang yuan is with 'wong zao' in cantonese^^
well, as for this above photo of tang yuan is in syrup made with rock sugar

The Winter Solstice Festival or Dong Zhi 冬至 is one of the most important Chinese festivals which is celebrated by the Chinese and other East Asians between the 20th to 22nd December. During this time, the sunshine is the weakest, the day is the shortest and the night is the longest. Dong Zhi actually means that the winter was going to end soon. Why the Chinese were celebrating the festival, what so great about it???? According to the ancestors, we were celebrating it because the end of winter indicating the the spring was ahead. The farmers were able to back to their farm and working hard again, keep on producing food for the people again. That's why they were celebrating the festival. During the festival a special food must be eaten on that day called Tang Yuan.
The colourful Tang Yuan was my personal favourite during the festival. I enjoying eating it very much because of it's sweetness and the chewiness. During my younger age, my 'wai po' grandma used to tell me that eating Tang Yuan indicating we are one year older. They are some kind of story saying that we should chew the balls, we must swallow the whole things. well, if u can swallow then do so.. if u can't, please chew due to you might choke yourself .. bwahahaha xDDD
Traditionally, Tang Yuan are just plain colourful glutinous rice balls but nowadays they are readily available  with peanut, red bean paste and black sesame fillings.  Personally, I still prefer the authentic plain ones. hehe ~
haha ~ ate 'tang yuan' so much ^^ yummy ♨

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提早祝福冬至及圣诞快乐

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Friday, 10 December 2010

失恋不等于失败, 失恋是给自己一个翻身的机会

当她不再爱你的时候，请不要失去自己的自信。因为爱一个人，并非她的美丽，而只是一种感觉。她让你有这样的感觉，于是你爱她。同样，她不爱你，也并非你不优秀。优秀，不是爱的理由。看看还有那么多爱自己的人，淡淡地微笑一下，也是异样甜美的。




当她不再爱你的时候，也一定要祝福她。有了爱，便不该有恨。爱是美好的。恨却丑陋。何必让生命中最美好的东西化作丑恶呢？也不要觉得不公平。关于离去。她失去的是一个爱她的人，而你失去了一个不爱你的人，却得到了一个重新生活，重新去爱的机会。




当她不再爱你的时候，请不要失态，虽然一段感情已结束，也有必要给对方留一个美丽的背影，必竟曾经拥有就是缘。与其让自己因憎恨而变得面目狰狞，不妨让自己更优秀吧！让自己出色一点，无论在外在或内在上，都要散发出一种可以勾动女人心的魅力，这样才有可能拥有另一段更美好的恋情。




当她不再爱你的时候，请轻轻拥抱一下回忆里的温暖，轻柔地凝视凋谢的温柔。




亲爱的，请你深深呼吸，一生的路上，铺满了爱的花蕾，总有那么一朵属于你，不是安慰你。而是，这是生生世世早已经注定的。


谁不想与她牵手到老，可缘份尽了，谁又拦得住。伤不伤心？伤心！难不难过？难过！郁不郁闷？郁闷之极！可人在江湖，哪个男人不受点这样的打击，失去的只是一段恋情，不应该再失去你自己，失恋了，别趴下！


乐观面对失恋



当失恋不期而至时，千万不要悲悲切切，更不要哭天喊地，应当庆贺，感谢对方拒绝了你。不是吗？正因为有了对方的拒绝，你才拥有了再度选择的机会！



正因为有了对方的拒绝，你才重新有了高度的自由。你再也无须为对方牵肠挂肚--如果说失恋是"失"，凭什么不能说失恋也是"得"呢！


惨烈的失恋固然是一种悲哀，但它更是一种摆脱。



不是有个挺不错的说法吗：砸碎镣铐闹革命！失恋就是这样一次最深刻的革命。不是有个挺振奋人心的口号吗：奴隶翻身做主人！失恋就是这样一个翻身的绝好机会。



失恋是什么？是告别糊涂重新走向了理智。


退而结网，学会进取



就算失恋是因为你的长相、或学历、或修养、或气质……不尽对方的意，人家向你出示了"红牌"，你也不必弄得一副很受伤很打击的样子。古人云：与其临渊羡鱼，不如退而结网。这是很有见地的。低不成而高又不就，如果你非得要求"高就"，现在能做的只有充实、提高自己。存优去劣，查漏补缺，扬长避短。静下心来，化伤感为力量，变压力为动力，不断进取，努力充实提高自己，而使自己日渐一日地完善、成熟起来，增强自己的吸引力和向心力。



随缘，东山再起



爱情可遇不可求。有缘则聚，无缘则散。没有爱情的时候，多充实自己，多培养兴趣，多参加集体活动，在活动中展示自己的"闪光点"。待时机成熟，缘分来了，也许是别人悄悄地靠近你，也许是你轻轻地靠近别人。不容易得到的不一定是适合自己的；容易得到的也不一定是不适合自己的。当缘分来了可不要失之交臂，缘分像机遇一样，需要自己好好把握啊！



或许下一个节目就是：有情人终成眷属！



其实，失恋只不过是人生中的一个经历而已。它绝对是丰富人生阅历的精彩篇章，有人身在其中，不知何去何从，那就任凭时间流逝，一定能迎来另一片安宁。很多时候男人会被这样的伤害伤透心，但其实往往是这样，身在其中难以自拔，跳出来或远距离的看它才能品出人生的滋味……
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Sunday, 5 December 2010

all of sudden thoughts..

i know how u felt now.. it's really hard and ..
actually, you're a good friend to talk to.. but now.. i'm so sorry
forgiving me .. i know it's hard.. but i really hope for a new turn over..
i realy blame myself for everything .. losing u ..
is as if i lost something within my heart ..
i just wan to say .. i really miss you so much..
especially the time we talk and laugh and joke together..

what am i hoping so much for??
i guess there's no way of turning back..
the one and only way is moving forward and not looking back ..

sometimes i felt it's too late to regret ..
the last and only thing i wish is for you to forgive me..
and happy birthday .. to you ..
to where you go, i wishes your dream come true ..
also happy always .. smile all the way ..
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Monday, 22 November 2010

everything in life...

"Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything." As we grow older, it gets harder to believe. It’s not that we don’t want to but too much has happened and we can’t.

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down, probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back...

Don't cry for what might of been, don't live in the past. It was supossed to be forever, well forever never lasts. Lift your head and dry your tears, forget about yesterday. We had the time of your lives, but we must move on, let it fade away...

I’m starting to realize that ‘forever’ is just another one of those fairy tales that mothers tell their children to help them sleep at night. Nothing is forever. Life isn’t, happiness isn’t, love isn’t. Things end and people say goodbye and we have no choice in the matter. All we can do is sit and watch our lives ending one minute at a time... *..Wait for the person who will make an ordinary moment seem magical, the kinda of person who brings out the best in you and makes you wanna be a better person.

Wait for the person who will be your best friend, who will drop everything to be with you at anytime no matter what the circumstances. Wait for the person who makes you smile like no one else, and when that person smiles, you know that person needs you. wait for the person who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats and have no make-up on, but appreciates it when you get dolled up for ...and most of all, wait for the person who will put you at the center of his universe, because that's where you belong ..*

I'm going to smile like nothings wrong, talk like everythings perfect, act like it's all a dream, and pretend it's not hurting me. I love walking in the rain because then no one knows im crying.You ask me what’s wrong and I say nothing, but as a tear falls, I say everything...

Just when you think things can't get any worse.....they do. But....I've learned that life is like hour glass sand. Sooner or later, everything hits rock bottom, but all you have to do is be patient and wait for something to turn everything around....

To put it simply, I want to be part of everything of eveyone…

Smile. It's easier than explaining why you're sad^^
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